Hey gang ... 

Welcome to YOUR Marriage Matterz podcast episode YMM #062 "Why Change Is Critical To A More Vibrant, Healthy Marriage ... And, How To Make It Happen!"

Tommy Hopkins once said "the price of progress is the pain of change"! So growth can certainly be uncomfortable for sure and at times can be downright painful. In this episode we will discuss why it is so important to you and your marriage and we are going to provide you with a formula for making it happen in your lives!

We will be back next week with our next session in the "40 Days of Prayer" study!

Jim & Christie Jacobus 

Hey gang ... 

Welcome to YOUR Marriage Matters podcast episode #061! This week we are tackling the second part of the Lord's Prayer and specifically how it applies to our marriages. 

We are in Rick Warren's 40 Days of Prayer study in our church, in our Sunday School Class (now called a Connect Group!) and we are following along here in our podcast as well! 

If you would like access to all of the resources we talk about in the podcast go to www.yourmarriagematterz.com/episode61. There you will find the videos, the powerpoint presentation and other awesome materials!

Enjoy this week's study! 

Jim & Christie Jacobus 

Hey gang ... 

Welcome to YOUR Marriage Matterz podcast episode - YMM #060 40 Days of Prayer Week 4 ... Jesus Teaches Us How To Pray (For Our Marriages)!

We are in Week 4 of Rick Warren's 40 Days of Prayer and we are going to take a very close look at 10 key things we can take away from The Lord's Prayer. Because there is so much ground to cover we are going to dig into the first 5 this week and the second 5 next week. 

Here is what we will tackle in this episode ...

1. How much God loves us ... 
2. How God is worthy of praise ... 
3. We want his kingdom to come here on earth ... 
4. We want his will to be done ...
5. Give us today just what we need for today ... 

If you want access to ...

• Rick Warren's videos
• A copy of the teaching powerpoint file 
• A link to buy the 40 Days of Prayer workbook 

Then go to www.yourmarriagematterz.com/episode60

Let us know how we can pray for you and your marriage! 

Jim & Christie Jacobus 

Hey gang ... 

Welcome to YOUR Marriage Matterz podcast episode #059 "How To Pray For YOUR Marriage With Confidence"! We are in week 2 of our 40 Days of Prayer study led by Rick Warren. 

In this lesson we learn that God is our Father in heaven and that he:

• Cares for us ... 
• Is consistent in his nature ... 
• Is as close to us as can be ...
• And is Competent to handle any and everything we need!

If you want to watch the Rick Warren video or take advantage of a number of resources available for this study then go to our website at www.yourmarriagematterz.com/episode59 !

Also, please let us know if there is anything we can pray for you and your marriage!

Jim & Christie Jacobus 

Hey gang ... 

Welcome to YOUR Marriage Matterz podcast episode #058! This week we start an 8 week series from Rick Warrens "40 Days Of Prayer" and this week, Week 1, we are learning about the "Purpose of Prayer! 

This series is full of awesome resources for us to use in our study. To grab those resources go to our website at ... www.yourmarriagematterz.com/episode58!

We are so excited about this series, what it can do for our marriages and what it can do in our homes! Be sure and go to the website and download all of the resources! 

Jim & Christie Jacobus

Hey gang ... 

Welcome to YOUR Marriage Matterz podcast episode YMM #057 ... 3 Lessons Team Jacobus Learned From A Major Decision We Made!

In this episode you are going to learn 3 important things that can be really important to success when it comes to decision making in your relationship! As a bonus you will also find out what dorks Team Jacobus can be from time to time!

Want to sign up for our brand new newsletter ... Click Here!

So tune in and take notes! 

Jim & Christie Jacobus 

Hey gang ... 

Welcome to YOUR Marriage Matterz podcast episode YMM #056 ... How To Straighten Out Your Spouse - In the "BIG" Stuff!

Last week we discussed How To Straighten Out Your Spouse ... In the Small Stuff! and as we promised, this week we are going to tackle the strategies, tactics, skills and mindset needed when we have to straighten out our spouse and it is something that truly threatens themselves and/or the marriage. 

We are going to walk through a "continuum of care" from the easiest thing to do to the most invasive of options. If, after listening to this podcast you feel like you need help please feel free to reach out to us viw DM on Facebook or by e-mail info@teamjacobus.com.

We would be glad to help ... 

Jim & Christie Jacobus 

Hey gang ... 

Welcome to YOUR Marriage Matterz podcast episode #055 where we tackle the strategies, tactics, skills and mindset needed to "straighten out your spouse" ... in the small day to day stuff that is just a part of marriage!

The Jacobus' are going to give us some very practical ideas to help us navigate what can be some tricky waters as we share these minor, but important, pieces of information in our relationships!

Next week we will tackle how to do it in the BIG stuff! Learning how to do it in the small stuff is a great primer for when the difficult comes our way!

We trust you will enjoy this podcast ... 

Jim & Christie Jacobus 

Hey gang ... 

Welcome to YOUR Marriage Matterz podcast episode #05 where we tackle the question ... What Does It Take To Build A More Vibrant Healthy Marriage? Last week we heard Jim's version and this week we get to hear what Christie has to say!

Grab a notebook and a pen. You are going to want to take notes on this one! 

Jim & Christie Jacobus 

Hey gang ... 

Welcome to Your Marriage Matterz podcast episode #053 where Jim tackles what he believes are the keys to building the marriage we dreamed of when we said "I do"!

We will get Christie's version next week so we can get an alternative perspective. But for today ... let's see what Jim has to say!

Jim & Christie Jacobus 

Hey gang ... 

Welcome to YOUR Marriage Matterz podcast episode #052 and yes, that means we have been at this podcasting for exactly one year. 

In this episode we look back over our favorite and most impactful episodes from year one as well as we preview what we see coming for the podcast in the year that lies ahead!

We trust you will enjoy this quick walk down memory lane as well as you will enjoy the previews of what is to come!

Jim & Christie Jacobus 

Hey gang ... 

Welcome to YOUR Marriage Matterz podcast episode #051 Marriage Power Skill #2 ... Learning To Effectively Resolve Conflict! Successful couples learn how to navigate the tricky waters around how they solve problems together whether they are "conflict avoiders" like Christie or "conflict engagers" like Jim!

Learning to solve our conflicts effectively allows us to gain trust in each other and in the marriage. Nothing makes a couple more confident than knowing no matter what the world throws their way they are going to deal with it and deal with it effectively!

And, we think you will love learning how to fight N A K E D! Trust us on this one ... 

Jim & Christie Jacobus 

Hey gang ... 

Welcome to this week's YOUR Marriage Matterz podcast episode YMM #050 Marriage Power Skill #1 ... Learning To Effectively Communicate!

At the root of the vast majority of marital challenges lies the same 2 culprits ... 

• The inability to effectively communicate
• The inability to effectively solve problems together

When a couple makes a decision to tackle and master these two key "Power Skills" then everything else from there on can be handled! Money, parenting, sex, family and every other marital challenge is a subset of communication and conflict resolution. 

This week we are tackling communication and are giving us all a very powerful and immediately applicable set of skills to assist us all in becoming better communicators! Next week we will tackle conflict resolution with one of our favorite skill sets! 

If you want to download the handout for this week's episode Click Here! 

To register for The Cupid Challenge go to www.thecupidchallenge.com ! It is going to be a blast ... 

Until next week ... 

Jim & Christie Jacobus 

Hey gang ... 

Welcome to YOUR Marriage Matterz podcast episode #049! We have a special treat for you in this one as Team Jacobus interviews Wedding Industry Expert Amanda Meeker Vela ... and boy does she have some incredible insights for us all!

We recommend getting out your notepads and you might want to grab a box of Kleenex as well! This is some really good stuff Amanda shares with us as she reflects on her own marriage, her parents marriage and her work in the wedding industry both on the photography and video perspective as well as being a co-owner and Director of Business Development for The Meekermark wedding venue. To learn more about the venue or their amazing wedding photography go to www.themeekermark.com !

Also, if you haven't signed up for The Cupid Challenge we encourage you to do so! We are just a few days away from launching this 14 day fun event on February 1st! Each day you will receive an e-mail with a short video giving us all a fun, easy to do challenge designed to help develop a more vibrant healthy marriage!

We trust you will enjoy this awesome interview with Amanda Meeker Vela! 

Jim & Christie Jacobus 

Hey gang ...

Welcome to YOUR Marriage Matterz podcast episode #048 where this week Team Jacobus Answers "What Are The Biggest Threats To YOUR Marriage In 2019?"

We are regularly asked this questions in the workshops that we do and were just asked it again the other day so we thought why not tackle it right from the get go here at the beginning of 2019! Our answers about what to do about them may surprise you!

Also, we are well under way in getting people signed up for "The Cupid Challenge"! This 14 day challenge will begin on February 1st and will end on February 14th which is, of course, Valentine's Day!

This is going to be a fun filled time of doing simple things each day to be more intentional about building more vibrant healthy marriages! Every day you will receive an e-mail from us with a short video describing our challenge for the day. We are excited to hear what you come up with each day!

To sign up you can ... 

1. Go to the website www.thecupidchallenge.com and register there!
2. You can go to our Facebook Group "Your Marriage Matterz" and sign up there and join the FB group if you haven't already. To go to the FB Group Click Here!

Again, this is going to be a lot of fun so we invite you to join us!

Jim & Christie Jacobus 

Hey gang ... 

Welcome to YOUR Marriage Matterz podcast episode #047 ... Team Jacobus Answers 2 Great Questions About Conflict! 

Day in and day out we regularly receive questions that have to do with conflict in marriage. Those questions consistently revolve around people who avoid conflict and people that always seem to be in conflict. The truth is conflict is healthy in a marriage when dealt with appropriately!

In this episode we tackle 2 very common questions:

1. What do you do when your spouse won't engage in conflict and consequently nothing ever gets resolved. 
2. What do you do when it seems like we argue about everything?

You are going to hear some great ideas regarding what to do about both in this podcast!

Also, we introduced "The Cupid Challenge" in this episode. Simply put it is going to be 14 days of focus on being intentional about building more vibrant healthy marriages and it is going to be a lot of fun!

To sign up Click Here to go to our Facebook Group or go wo www.thecupidchallenge.com and you can sign up there. Join us for this cool event and have some fun learning some new ways to grow your marriage!

We trust you will enjoy and learn a lot from this week's podcast ... 

Jim & Christie Jacobus 

Hey gang ... 

Welcome to YOUR Marriage Matterz podcast episode #046 What Are YOUR Word(s) To Drive Success In 2019? 

As we have turned the page on 2018 and moved into 2019 there has been a lot of discussion on Social Media regarding what word, or words, will you lock in on to drive success in 2019. 

We share with you what our words are but really want to hear what will be the focus for building your own vibrant healthy marriage in 2019? Take a moment to fo to our Facebook Group - YOUR Marriage Matterz and share your thoughts!

Also, we announced The Cupid Challenge a 14 day event we will launch on February 1st that will run through Valentine's Day. Each day we will send you an e-mail with a video that will put a fun, simple and exciting challenge in front of you for that day. Each challenge will help us all, Christie and I included, to build a more vibrant healthy marriage. 

Click Here to sign up for The Cupid Challenge!