What is one habit that you would like to change about yourself, and why? - YMM #43

Welcome!  Today’s topic is one that requires more transparency and vulnerability than some that we’ve covered. Have an open mind and approach with honesty!

Here is the question to consider: What is one habit that you would like to change about yourself, and why?

There are several reasons that this is an important issue:

• Some habits of your partner could be problematic in the relationship.
• Some habits may NOT change after marriage and you can’t expect things to change.
• This topic requires that we look inside ourselves instead of pointing at the other person.
• This is an opportunity to help each other get better.
• Caution: If any habit is a deal-breaker for you, then make sure to deal with it BEFORE marriage!
• This is an opportunity to strive to “Be the best version of yourself that you can be.”

How do we change habits? There are five steps: self-awareness, self-regulation (discipline), motivation, empathy, and social skills.

Your assignment is to set a time to get together and discuss today’s question.  Find out what your partner can do to help you, and vice versa. Have a follow-through plan of how to proceed in a positive manner.

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